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DePaara's Absence

Discussion in 'Sorcerous Sundries' started by LKD, Aug 21, 2003.

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  1. LKD Gems: 31/31
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    Well, folks, as many of you may or may not have noticed, my posting frequency went WAY down over the past few months. This is because my wife asked for a separation and now wants a divorce. God help me. Anyhow, thanks to the people here who supported me through this time -- I'll probablt need some more support as the weeks go on. For those of a religious bent, please say a prayer for me.
     
    LKD, Aug 21, 2003
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    Damnit man, I wish you the best of luck through this hard time. I'm not much of a praying man, but I will put in a good word for you in my own way.

    You know that if you need us, we're here for you.

    *hug*
     
    Faragon, Aug 21, 2003
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    Hey old buddy hang in there. Although one chapter in your life ends another one starts, isn't that how the old saying goes? Just make sure none of you get cheated when the financial split is made. Small things can escalate to much anger. Anyhow, on a grander scale, isn't a divorce afterall supposed to solve things and not cause them?

    I am sure #sorcerers will be a great aid, as always. Good luck.
     
    Nobleman, Aug 21, 2003
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    Hey man i'm sorry she doesn't give you the second chance you asked :sosad: .You know we are here for you anytime, #sorcerers is the place you can ask for help and be sure you will get it. Hang in there, i wish you find the best solution you can
     
    Mithrantir, Aug 21, 2003
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    You have all my sympathy.
     
    Jarel, Aug 21, 2003
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    Good luck man. It sounds like a nightmare.
    I hope you find some peace.
     
    Jack Funk, Aug 21, 2003
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    I'm real sorry to hear that, but I'm sure we're all here for you at SP, even if only by wires and screens. I hope you find contentment, with or without your wife.
     
    Oaz, Aug 21, 2003
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  8. Splunge

    Splunge Bhaal’s financial advisor Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    Sorry to hear that, LKD. It's too bad you couldn't work things out with her, but life goes on. Good luck.
     
    Splunge, Aug 21, 2003
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    Not much to add other than hang in there, don't poison the kids and try not to get too upset if she tries to do it. We're here for you.
     
    dmc, Aug 21, 2003
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    I am sorry to hear that. But I think somehow life will go on and will turn into something new and won't look so bad anymore.
     
    Iago, Aug 21, 2003
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    My thoughts and prayers are with you, pal. :)

    As we've discussed before, I'm the type who believes that everything happens for a reason. This may turn out to be a good thing...at least that's what I'm hoping for.

    Keep your head up, man. You have a lot to live for. Here for ya.
     
    Death Rabbit, Aug 21, 2003
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    Thanks everyone -- you guys are the best.
     
    LKD, Aug 21, 2003
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    I'm with DR on that one: Everything happens for a reason. Whether you'll find out what it is or not, I'm quite positive it turns out to be good.

    The only thing I can do is to mention you in my prayers. And that's an encouraging thought. Since prayers are imo the best help one can get. ;)

    All the luck and keep your head up high!
     
    Master of Nuhn, Aug 22, 2003
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    You have all my sympathy... but you probably know this already. I'll remember you in my prayers.
     
    chevalier, Aug 22, 2003
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    Lord Depaara - I'm very saddened to hear that things are getting worse. As someone who has gone through the same thing, I can tell you that as much as it sucks it's not the end. It may not seem like it now, but there will be much better times ahead for you -- I'm sure of it. Keep your mind and eyes on the better times ahead.
     
    Chandos the Red, Aug 23, 2003
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    My empathy LKD. :(

    At the risk of repeating what has already been said: living on your own is better than hell at home. For everyone.
     
    Oxymore, Aug 23, 2003
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    I'd carry the weight of your sadness if I could, but as it is, I can offer only a virtual pat on the back and my condolences. Hope things start looking up soon.
     
    The Soul Forever Seeking, Aug 25, 2003
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    :( Depaara i am so sad for you. if you ever need to talk just let me know. Has custody been arranged?
     
    Shell, Aug 27, 2003
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    Virtual hug and condolences. Divorces can suck, but atleast you won't have a nagging harpy there anymore. (Sorry)
     
    Eze, Aug 27, 2003
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    *hugs*

    I don't know what else I could sya or do....

    *hugs again*
     
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